Petals from the Basket

How to Make a Profound Difference

There’s a product available that makes it possible for writers (bloggers, in particular) to offer a “Tweet this” link following something that they think might be “quotable” or worthy of passing along in succinct form from their article or blog post. When used properly, it can be extremely helpful for spreading the word about something a reader wants to share that made an impact as he or she read the article/post. However, I am noticing that some of these bloggers are now trying so hard to be profound and “Tweetable” that their words are beginning to sound contrived and ingenuous. If not utilized properly, the tool can turn a potentially powerful statement into an arrogant plea for popularity through self-promotion.

Yet, how often do we fall into this trap in our everyday service to God and others? We give in order to be thought generous. We try to accomplish something big with a self-serving end result in mind. We try to say or write something profound with the desire of “going viral.” We post on Facebook solely to get “likes.” We try to make a difference by helping people, but in the process we become so enamored with the difference that we forget the people—not only those we desire to help but those who have been and will continue to be there beside us, encouraging us and loving us in spite of our neglect of them.

When our love for God and others provides the impetus for our actions and our words, when our giving comes from a heart of love that sees a need, a longing, and a hope and from a heart that selflessly desires to help meet that need, fulfill that longing, or offer that hope, then we will know the true joy of giving. That is the moment when we will fulfill God’s command:

“My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you” (John 15:12, NIV).

He doesn’t love us so that He will be great. He loves us and generously gives to us because He is great—and good and kind and caring and patient and humble and….

Don’t set out to be profound. Don’t even set out to make a difference. From the outset, determine to care, to see the needs and hopes of others, to vulnerably and sincerely give from deep inside your heart, and in so doing, you will make a profound difference.

7 thoughts on “How to Make a Profound Difference

  1. Linda Lochridge Hoenigsberg

    I love this Brenda. I am recovering from a brain surgery, which has meant slowing down and smelling the roses so to speak. If God has taught me one thing, it’s about what it means to be significant, and it is not about becoming well known online or having a huge “tribe.” It’s about making an impact on your own personal tribe…those family and friends who are really in your life. Great thoughts. thank you!

    1. Petals from the Basket Post author

      Thank you, Linda, for taking time to read the post and to share a tiny piece of your story. You made an impact on me simply through your comment! Continue writing and sharing what God is teaching you (loved your recent blog posts).